If you like your sex LOUD go to Sweden


Noisy sex no problem for Swedes: study

Only one out of four Swedes who hear their neighbors having sex are bothered enough to do anything about it, according to a new study.

The findings come from responses of 1,000 Swedes in a poll carried out by research company Skop looking at the nighttime habits of Swedes’ neighbors and the resulting naughty noises that penetrate the walls.

According to the poll, one in ten Swedes has heard their neighbors having sex, but only a quarter of those who’ve heard their neighbors doing the nasty have gotten hot enough under the collar to take action, reported Hem & Hyra, newspaper of the Swedish Tenants’ Union (Hyresgästföreningen).

While the results showed both women and men were equally affected by the experience, younger Swedes were more likely to take issue with the romantic rendezvous.

Sex expert Malena Ivarsson explained that young people‘s intolerance of high-decibel lovemaking may be due to the contrast in life experiences between people of differing age.

“Young people have not realized yet that what they care about today they might not care about tomorrow. Older people have experienced worse sounds than sex, such as abuse, children screaming, dying gasps, loud music,and drilling,” she told Hem & Hyra.

“An average lovemaking session lasts seven and a half minutes, that’s not so long. See it as an inspiration rather than an irritation.”

Of the 10 percent who responded that they had heard the sounds of their neighbors  love-making, only 15 percent have actually had the nerve to confront the neighbor in question.

Meanwhile, only 3 percent ever took the matter further and made an official complaint.

“We treat this like any disruption. But in first hand contracts we recommend that you contact the neighbor  He or she is perhaps not aware that it is disrupting,” said Elise Berggren of real-estate company Stena to the newspaper.

Furthermore, some people are simply too shy to take the matter further, according to Yvonne Bystrom, co-owner of Swedish disturbance hotline Svenska störningsjouren.

“Most people are too embarrassed to call and complain, so these kinds of things don’t happen too often. We get a call about once a year,” she told Hem & Hyra.

TT/The Local/og



3 thoughts on “If you like your sex LOUD go to Sweden

  1. It would be interesting to see a statistical comparison between Sweden and other countries, or perhaps how people from other nationalities would be react:

    Brits would most likely keep calm and carry on sipping tea like nothing’s happened,
    Germans might knock on your door in the morning and shake your hand for job well done and ask if you could open the window wider next time,
    Australians would likely start up there own love making session next door and compete to see who was the best,
    and the Dutch, . . . well they’d probably just ask to join in!!
    No stereotyping here at all!!!


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