A few days ago I overheard someone say they never come to Downtown Sacramento its too dangerous. For someone who has lived in San Francisco and New York and frequently visit other large cities this is laughable.
Not that I would, but you could eat of the streets downtown Sacramento. This isn’t true of San Francisco or New York and many medium to large cities. Yes there is crime, the same crime you find in other densely populated areas.
For many, the fear is based on comfort, image and reputation.
There are many who live in small towns of the foothills are terrified of the prospect of traveling in the metro area. I met a woman who lives in eastern Placer county. Twice a year her son drives her to Folsom. “Folsom is too crowded and the drivers are crazy-I have two chest freezers so we drive to the Costco in Folsom to get necessary’s for the year”
Then there is race…..some people of color don’t feel comfortable going to Roseville. Some white and other groups avoid South Sacramento, they simply believe the area is unsafe.
Many years ago, I learned a good friend who lives in Manhattan had never visited Harlem. Although he has many Black and Puerto Ricans friends he had never gone uptown. I regularly visit Harlem to shop and visit friends.
After insisting he come with me, my rough and tough urbanite friend became a big bag of nerves on 125th Street,lighting one cigarette after another. His fears were realized after someone squirted a fast food pack of ketchup on our bare legs . While I though it was funny, he was traumatized, he believed the attack was racially motivated. It is not a part of who he is and he will return to Harlem.
I know some blacks who will not venture into beautiful Oakland because of its reputation. There are many whites who are afraid if they visit a neighborhood where they are the minority their lives are in danger. Some heterosexual men are afraid,to walk through the Castro District in San Francisco, there is a false belief some random Gay person will try to pick them up or worse, being seen and having someone assume they are gay.
Missing the Bubble
Our landscape is rapidly changing. 30 years ago many whites left the immediate Bay Area and move over the hill into Eastern Contra Costa and Alameda Counties. A friend recently complained about all the Indians in Eastern Alameda County, he complained about some of the local supermarkets offering Indian food. They’re alright he said, but they come over here with their ways.
Upwardly mobile Blacks, Asians and Mexicans are moving into upper middle class neighborhoods of Eastern Alameda County and Western Placer and El Dorado Counties Gays couples are also moving to the suburbs.
Its difficult to believe……50 years ago there were limitations on where non white could live. As a results of the lifting of these limitations ia unification ofs communities and cultures. No longer is the person who doesn’t look like me or believe as I do a monster or an alien.
My friends who happen to be Mormons, have two gay neighbors in West Sacramento. Two men and their child who lives next door and a blended Lesbian family lives at the corner. There children attend the same elementary school. And while they do not believe Gay people should have the right to marry, they do believe they should have the same rights as everyone else, this view isn’t shared by family and members of their church.
The world is rapidly changing, ask any elected Republican-self inflicted victims of Gerrymandering, limiting their exposure to the real world.
The more we are exposed to the more enlighten we become. 25 years ago, many american were against interracial marriage. Ten years ago the majority of Americans not only disapproved of gay marriage but most gay rights
I don’t live in the land of Disney. Ignorance, bigotry will always be a part of our lives. There will always be those who are uncomfortable with people and beliefs that differ from their own. The tide is turning and the ignorance is passing .