A passing ignorance


A few days ago I overheard someone say they never come to Downtown Sacramento its too dangerous.  For someone who has lived in San Francisco and New York and frequently visit other large cities this is laughable.

Not that I would, but you could eat of the streets downtown Sacramento.  This isn’t true of  San Francisco or New York  and  many medium to large cities.  Yes there is crime, the same crime you find in other densely populated areas.

For many, the fear is based on comfort, image and reputation.

There are many who live in small towns of the foothills are terrified of the prospect of traveling in the metro area.   I met a woman who lives in eastern Placer county.  Twice a year her son drives her to Folsom.  “Folsom is too crowded and the drivers are crazy-I have two chest freezers so we drive to the Costco in Folsom to get necessary’s  for the year”

The Paintbrush

Then there is race…..some people of color don’t feel comfortable going to Roseville.   Some white and other groups avoid South Sacramento, they simply believe the area is unsafe.

Many years ago, I learned a good friend who lives in Manhattan had never visited Harlem.  Although he has many Black and Puerto Ricans friends he had never gone uptown.  I regularly visit Harlem to shop and visit friends.

After insisting he come with me, my rough and tough urbanite friend became a big bag of nerves on 125th Street,lighting one cigarette after another.   His fears were realized after someone squirted a fast food pack of ketchup  on our bare legs  . While I though it was funny, he was traumatized,  he believed the attack was racially motivated. It is not a part of who he is and he will return to                                                 Harlem.

I know some blacks who will not venture into beautiful Oakland because of its reputation.  There are many whites who are afraid if they visit  a neighborhood where they are the minority their lives are in danger.   Some heterosexual men are  afraid,to  walk through the Castro District  in San Francisco, there is a false belief  some random Gay person will try to pick them up or                                             worse, being seen and having someone assume they are gay.

Missing the Bubble

Our landscape is rapidly changing.  30 years ago many whites left the immediate Bay Area and move over the hill into Eastern Contra Costa and Alameda Counties.  A friend  recently complained about all the Indians in Eastern Alameda County, he complained about some of the local supermarkets offering Indian food.  They’re alright he said, but they come over here with their ways.

Upwardly mobile Blacks, Asians and Mexicans are moving into upper middle class neighborhoods of Eastern Alameda County and Western Placer and El Dorado Counties   Gays couples are also moving to the suburbs.

Its difficult to believe……50 years ago there were limitations on where non white could live.  As a results of the lifting of these limitations ia unification ofs  communities and cultures.   No  longer is the person who doesn’t look like me or believe as I do a monster or an alien. 

My friends who happen to be Mormons, have two gay neighbors in West Sacramento.  Two men and their child who lives next door and a blended Lesbian family lives at the corner.  There children attend the same elementary school.  And while they do not believe Gay people should have the right to marry, they do believe they should have the same rights as everyone else, this view isn’t shared by family and members of their church.

The world is rapidly changing, ask any elected Republican-self inflicted victims of Gerrymandering, limiting their exposure to the real  world.

The more we are exposed to the more enlighten we become.  25 years ago, many american were against interracial marriage.  Ten years ago the majority of Americans not only disapproved of gay marriage but most gay rights

I don’t live in the land of Disney.  Ignorance, bigotry will always be a part of our lives.  There will always be those who are uncomfortable with people and beliefs that differ from their own.   The tide is turning and the ignorance is passing .

CityFella

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Moved to the Big Tomata in the nineties from San Francisco. No Suburbs for me with its single colored houses and lawns and the excitement of pulling out my trash can once a week. I'm a CityFella , a part time New Yorker. I'm happiest in the Center City where people the streets and people are alive. I'm still waiting to buy a 34th floor condo somewhere downtown/Midtown with a nightclub. "Hurry I'm old" My politics are somewhere in the middle with a needle that constantly moves. I'm too liberal to be a Republican and too conservative to be a Democrat. Everything interests me . I've come to love Sacratomato, Its a nice town in cheap sensible shoes .

2 thoughts on “A passing ignorance

  1. I grew up in Oak Park and learned to fear the city at an early age. 20 years ago, I would have agreed that downtown Sac was a scary place, but in the last ten years or so it has gotten much safer. My son and I lived on “E” & 22nd about 8 years ago, and we would take walks around the neighborhood all the time. Felt very safe.

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    1. I live downtown….and when I was young lived in the Tenderloin in San Francisco…. I think its an attitude…. There are several senior apartments in the Tenderloin and you rarely heard of crimes being committed against those people… If you live in the city..you develop a second sense… You know not to cross the street in the middle of the block because it indicates fear…its better to walk by the danger (unless there was fighting) looking straight ahead. New Yorkers have that attitude that seems rude to Non New Yorkers.. You know looking into someones eyes will delay you (panhandlers with a story) you look forward and walk at a steady pace. as your body language can telegraph messages. Criminals choose low hanging fruit…easy prays….. That’s why I tell my daughters to scream, talk loud when confronted with someone who might harm them… The criminal wants easy… To walk closer to the street at night in urban areas and to walk closer to homes in the burbs…. .. As for Sac….its easy peezy….

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