An admission of error or discourtesy accompanied by an expression of regret (a public apology)
something that is said or written to defend something that other people criticize : defense The book is an apology for capitalism
informal : a poor substitute or example : makeshift He’s a poor apology for a father.
Why do people apologize? (What are the benefits?)
To relieve their conscious, closure, guilt.? ..
Some researchers believe, It strengthens community and reduces interpersonal violence. It raisers self worth. Some people believe the apology is freeing, relieving them of a burden.
The flip side, some view the apology as a sign of weakness. Some people, especially children feel vulnerable and are often unwilling to apologize. People who have a low sense of self-worth have trouble apologizing in the service of these greater goods
Many people believe once you have un burdened yourself of this secret, confessed, admitted you were wrong acceptance is immediate.
The reality is in most situations it isn’t. Even with an initial early acceptance, the acceptance might be rescinded. The individual or individual may need time to process the apology.
Infidelity, theft, violence, deception or a simple lie may take time. and its very possible acceptance may never take place.
If the person making the apology, apologized expecting immediate absolution, then the apology may be insincere. For many people acceptance requires trust and trust takes time. How much time depends on the individual. It could be hours, days, months or even years until your able to rebuild that trust. If your a serial apologize , any future apologies may fall on deaf ears as your credibility is questioned.
Things that can affect acceptance is tone, and attitude.
“I said I WAS sorry!”
“I told you I was sorry!
“I apologized what more do you want”
Can delay acceptance
Do not set a timer.
Sincerely apologize and wait!
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