Defeat and failure are two words you won’t find in the vocabulary of a Happy peppy glass full person.
They will find another rainbow. Light in the darkest of times. Make a joke during sad times.
” I will miss her, but you have to admit she’s dressed better dead than anytime she was alive”
Their brightness can be irritating to anyone seeking darkness or silence.
It’s very difficult for these people to accept sadness or negativity. They are relentless and some expend all their energy into others to help them find a rainbow.
When they fail. When they are defeated. They take it personally.
The Sun shuts off and they retreat into a dark place blaming themselves for failing their friend.
The problem with happy peppy, glass half full people is they forget people are different. Individuals come in different speeds. We all wired differently. A combination of backgrounds, parenting, and personal experiences.
We often arrive at the same destination but we arrive at speed that’s comfortable for us.
All of those differences must be honored and respected.
While rainbows are important to happy peppy, glass half full individuals. Others are simply happy when the rain ends.
There is a place for happy peppy, glass full people. They aren’t difficult to find as they are often surrounded by people basking in their Sunshine.
They will be better served when they take a moment an access the situation and accept the person for who they are before attempting to help or repair them.