Swinging in Sacramento? Heck yes!

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A freaked out father of four wanted his mo-NAY back from an Arden area hotel on New Years Eve .After learning a Swingers Club was having a party in the hotel. How dare he and his children stay at a hotel where people are having SEX! Ouba Goobay

A sex club was having a mega party New Years Eve and he was OUTRAGED! Let’s throw out Logic or Common Sense that would dictate, he would have to go looking for the party in the large hotel. His position the hotel should have warned them before he made the reservation.

“In addition to the pool being closed for New Years,our hotel is having a rocking sex party”

He didn’t get a refund.

One of the many Secret’s about Sactown it was once a hub of Swinger (sex clubs) in California .

Now how do I know this?

In the late late late nineties. A super sized friend of mine wanted to know if I would be a bouncer slash security guard at a hotel over a weekend, it was easy money and they were looking for a super sized man. Well hello there……

The requirement was a black suit ( I’m a super sized man-we always have something black to wear) and that we were mature.

The gig was a Swingers (sex club) Party at a hotel in Rancho Cordova. My job was to redirect uninvited guest. My post was five feet from reception and my job was to greet members with a smile. That was it, for $300.

I was prepared to make mental (in my head) fun of the patrons. After all I’m from San Francisco and New York City. I’ve been to the exotic erotic ball at the Cow Palace in San Francisco which was a bit too much for THIS Cityfella . Sac is Hooterville ,so I thought. I was expecting red pumps, bouncing boobies, and men with open shirts and gold chains.

What I saw were pleasantly dressed men and women. Some of the Women looked like teachers. Sunday school teachers. The men were ordinary too. They could be your banker, or insurance salesmen. There were a few extroverts, but not the exotic erotic ball caliber. The more people I saw, the more questions I had. One member, patently answered all my preteen questions. He was a member for 5 years. I learned, this particular club membership process was more like an exclusive country club There are dues and fees and strict rules to be followed.

I learned that little ole Sacramento was hub of sorts for these gatherings. Groups could rent out hotels in Sacramento for a lot less than the Bay and Southern California, the cost of travel was offset by the lower room costs. Elaborate theme parties that often take several days to assemble.

There were a few people I had to turn away, Invites lost in the mail or if I would just let them in they would find the member, that member could vouch for them. No one was violent or too argumentative. Like, who wants to be arrested for attempting to bust in sex club.

As the night progressed my Christian curiosity was on hyper drive. I wanted to take a peek, hard as I tried, I couldn’t hear any moaning or screaming.

This party was extremely organized, there were levels of security to protect the privacy of the members. My friend and I was the external security they also had two people outside the meeting room and people inside the meeting room. I learned this as I pretended that I didn’t know where the men’s room was.

That was 1999, I don’t know if Sacramento is still number one Today people are probably having virtual sex parties via live stream

Back to New Years Eve 2019

Had the man not seen the sign about the party, he wouldn’t have known it was taking place. The hotel were the party took place is one of Sacramento’s best. He told Fox 40 there were crazies in the hot tub. Shouldn’t he be with his four children or did he take with? “Look Tommy”

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Published by CityFella

Big city fella, Born and Raised in the San Francisco Bay Area. Lived in New York (a part time New Yorker) for three years . I have lived in the Sacramento area since 1993. When I first moved here, I hated it. Initially found the city too conservative for my tastes. A great place to raise children however too few options for adults . The city has grown up, there is much to do here. The city suffers from low self esteem in my opinion, locals have few positive words to say about their hometown. visitors and transplants are amazed at what they find here. From, the grand old homes in Alkali Flats, and the huge trees in midtown, there are many surprises in Sacramento. Theater is alive is this area . And finally ,there is a nightlife... In.downtown midtown, for the young and not so young. My Criticism is with local government. There is a shortage of visionaries in city hall. Sacramento has long relied on the state, feds and real estate for revenue. Like many cities in America,Downtown Sacramento was the hub of activity in the area. as the population moved to the suburbs and retail followed. The city has spent millions to revive downtown. Today less than ten thousand people live downtown. No one at city hall could connect the dots. Population-Retail. Business says Sacramento is challenging and many corporations have chosen to set up operations outside the cities limits. There is vision in the burbs. Sacramento has bones, there are many good pieces here, leaders seem unable or unwilling to put those pieces together into. Rant aside, I love it here. From the trees to the rivers. But its the people here that move me. Sacramento is one of the most integrated cities in America. I find I'm welcome everywhere. The spices work in this city of nearly 500,000 and for the most part these spices blend well together. From Ukrainians to Hispanics and a sizable gay community, all the spices seem to work well here. I frequently travel and occasionally I will venture into a city with huge racial borders, where its unsafe to visit after certain hours. I haven't found it here. I cant imagine living in a community where there is one hue or one spice. I love the big trees, Temple Coffee House, the Alhambra Safeway, Zelda's Pizza, Bicyclist in Midtown, The Mother Lode Saloon, Crest Theater, and the Rivers. I could go on and I might. Sacramento is home.

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