Is He Taking Advantage Of You? 8 Signs You’re Trying Way Too Hard To Make Your Relationship Work


Photo: Getty Images By: Brittany Berke/YourTangocom We’ve all been there. Those times when we bring our A-game and work so hard to make sure our partner stays interested. When we’re young and in new relationships, it’s understandable that you want to make things work, so we put in as much effort as possible. But theContinue reading “Is He Taking Advantage Of You? 8 Signs You’re Trying Way Too Hard To Make Your Relationship Work”

African American Woman from Chicago Moved To Italy For Love


This story was orginally published in the New York Times Febuary 2020. Its about an African American Women who moved to Italy for a man she met on Tinder. Original Title: ‘In Italy I Kept Meeting Guys’: The Black Women Who Travel for Love By: Tariro Mzezewa\New York Times Italy, a country known for its languageContinue reading “African American Woman from Chicago Moved To Italy For Love”

Singles Awareness Day: The benefits of being single


By: Kristen Rogers/CNN An increasing number of people around the world are opting to go solo.The number of American men and women who have never been married, are divorced or are living alone has been on an upward trend for several years, according to the US Census Bureau.Despite the fact marriages or relationships are less common theseContinue reading “Singles Awareness Day: The benefits of being single”

How To Find Love: 3 Ways You Could Be Blocking Yourself


By: Kristine Carlson Do you want to know how to find love that lasts? It’s important to look deep and make sure you’re not getting in your own way of real love. In fact, there are 3 common blocks to finding real love that you need to avoid. 1. You’re holding onto the past. WhenContinue reading “How To Find Love: 3 Ways You Could Be Blocking Yourself”

This Is the Worst Thing You Could Say to Someone in Bed


CHOOSE YOUR WORDS WISELY WHEN YOU’RE BOTH SO VULNERABLE. By: ALESANDRA DUBIN Sex is a healthy part of an intimate relationship but it’s also a highly vulnerable experience. Whether you’re in a long-term monogamous relationship with your partner, you’re just getting to know each other, or you know right off the bat it’s going toContinue reading “This Is the Worst Thing You Could Say to Someone in Bed”

Dating Diaries:He didn’t respect my social distancing request. Plus, he was rude


From the Toronto Star Catherine is 37, works in financial technology and lives in King West. She says, “When I asked a friend to describe me, the first thing that she said was ‘bougie.’ Once a guy took me to an upscale cocktail bar on our first date, which he selected because I ‘come acrossContinue reading “Dating Diaries:He didn’t respect my social distancing request. Plus, he was rude”

Wayback Machine (2013) When Ok Cupid Introduces you to people you know


(2013) If you’ve been in a long term relationship of ten years or more, you have discovered the world has changed.  No more meetings at the malt shop after the sox hop and meeting the love of your life sitting in the booth to your left. Wait, that’s not my life, I just finished watchingContinue reading “Wayback Machine (2013) When Ok Cupid Introduces you to people you know”

How Covid-19 Has Changed Gay Men’s Sex Lives


Like other people, many men who have sex with men have done all they could to avoid the coronavirus. Now some are braving renewed contact while balancing risk. By; David Tuller/California Healthline/ Mens Health Dr. Jeffrey Klausner, a primary care physician in Los Angeles, has treated gay men for decades. Since the start of theContinue reading “How Covid-19 Has Changed Gay Men’s Sex Lives”

Germany: Advice for sex and dating during the coronavirus crisis?


How do you get close to a potential romantic partner during the pandemic? Photo: DPA By Rachal Loxton/The Local Some countries have issued frank sex advice for single people, while others have kept it vague. What’s the official advice in Germany when it comes to dating in the time of corona? Since the height ofContinue reading “Germany: Advice for sex and dating during the coronavirus crisis?”

Normal? The Ricki Lake Show


                   For eleven years we waited for the door bell.  The door bell was an indication someone was about the get busted.   The Ricki Lake Show came on during the early nineties when talk shows were in vogue.  Everyone wanting to be the next Donahue or Oprah.Continue reading “Normal? The Ricki Lake Show”