Are You Datable or Are You a Fling?


Photo/Google Our sex and relationships writer breaks it down   By:  Megan Drillinger/ Men’s Health I’ve spent a lot of time trying to make relationships out of booty calls. Because all great relationships are built on a foundation of phenomenal sex and the occasional inside joke, right? (RIGHT?!) I mean, if you’re making me orgasmContinue reading “Are You Datable or Are You a Fling?”

dating: THE CHECK


There was a time when the lines were clearly drawn, roles defined.   When it came to dating, it was the man who paid.  It was the man who decided where the couple was going to dine.  This was pre Phil Donahue, and Murphy Brown. After Donahue, there were some feminists who believed the manContinue reading “dating: THE CHECK”

Real Men Explain Why They REFUSE To Date Fat Women


By: Rebecca Jane Stokes/Your Tango.com They didn’t hold anything back. I am a fat woman. I am friends with other fat women.. None of us have a hard time getting dates, finding love, or sex, whatever it is we happen to be looking for. But while that’s true, all of the fat women in myContinue reading “Real Men Explain Why They REFUSE To Date Fat Women”

Sex in the cornfields: The agony and ecstasy of dating at a strict Christian college


We knew next to nothing about sex, except that it was a sin outside of marriage. So we kept our pleasures secret By: Dan Rousseau/Salon.com The Indiana corn weaves like a maze of chastity. My girlfriend, Becca, and I are driving in my black Subaru Forester, hunting for a solitary space. I am a sophomore in collegeContinue reading “Sex in the cornfields: The agony and ecstasy of dating at a strict Christian college”

Remember the Malt Shop


By CityFella Remember  the Malt Shop?  It was the place where the cool kids met.   A place where you could meet the boy or girl of your dreams.   At least on TV,  at least in the 40’s 50’s and possibly 60’s. I’ve never seen a Malt Shop. I been to a Baskin andContinue reading “Remember the Malt Shop”

8 Things Every Woman Should Know About Dating Men Over 50


Image-Google Believe it or not it can be a bit trickier when you’re dating over 50. It all depends on what you’re looking for of course but ladies, be prepared to meet some of these guys.    By Jacqui Wright/We Love dates.com The Complainer – This guy likes to whinge. If you’ve been the one to arrangeContinue reading “8 Things Every Woman Should Know About Dating Men Over 50”

Dating and Baseball


By CityFella If you are a Baseball fan you know home runs are rare. When it happens its exciting. There are many who have had successful careers as a baseball player without a home run on their resume. In the Wonderful World of Dating, some of us expect no less than a home run. AfterContinue reading “Dating and Baseball”

3 Signs Your Online Date Isn’t Actually Single


How to tell if the guy you met online is already in a relationship. By:  D. Kay Hutchinson/Yourtango.com You’ve joined an online dating site and are excited to meet new people and explore possibilities. Finally, you discover one person in particular with whom you have a lot in common and feel that wonderful bubbly sensation ofContinue reading “3 Signs Your Online Date Isn’t Actually Single”

Four Things You Think Are Sexy That Really Aren’t


By: Elizabeth Marie/www.welovedates.com 1. Showing all your skin at once. Sometimes women get a bit overly excited when choosing what to wear, or more specifically, what not to wear and we think it’s a genius idea to wear the tiniest articles of clothing in our closets if we want to attract a man. I thinkContinue reading “Four Things You Think Are Sexy That Really Aren’t”

“Sir, that is your penis!”


How a lifetime habit of people pleasing came to a head on one truly hideous first date BY:AMBER HUBERT/Salon “Quik2draw” pulled out his penis with the kind of urgency you might find during a natural disaster or a major security threat. I thought we were just kissing good night in his car until I feltContinue reading ““Sir, that is your penis!””