Throwback Thursday: In 2006, a Charismatic pastor,author, was against gays and gay marriage, until the world learned he was having gay affair and possibly doing meth. His nickname was the Crystal Methodist.


Photo: Google Time magazine said, he was one of the top 25 most influential evangelicals in America.  His first church met in his basement of his home. his congregation was a devoted twenty two people,  grew into one of the largest churches in Colorado over 14,000 members. The pastor had strong views about homosexuality..  In 2006,Continue reading “Throwback Thursday: In 2006, a Charismatic pastor,author, was against gays and gay marriage, until the world learned he was having gay affair and possibly doing meth. His nickname was the Crystal Methodist.”

These Worst First Date Stories Are So Damn Awkward


By: Korin Miller/Mens Health Uh, can we not talk about your ex the whole time? “I can’t wait to go on another first date!” said pretty much no one, ever. While first dates give you a great chance to get to know someone new, trying to cram the basics of your life into a fewContinue reading “These Worst First Date Stories Are So Damn Awkward”

Uganda’s President Wants to Ban Oral Sex, Says the “Mouth is for Eating”


“The mouth is for eating, not for sex. We know the address of sex,” says President Museveni. By Damola Durosomo/Okay Africa Uganda’s President Yoweri Museveni has issued what he calls a “public warning” against oral sex. The president claims the practice has been pushed on Ugandans by “outsiders,” and argues that the mouth is solely for eating.Continue reading “Uganda’s President Wants to Ban Oral Sex, Says the “Mouth is for Eating””

Adventures in Dating in Online Dating 2016A Two Eggs over Lube


They met on a dubious gay site. A site where there are no last names and where telephone numbers are quickly deleted after the meeting.  After about a hour of chatting online the two exchanged telephone numbers.    Both men are in their fifties. Neither man had real expectations of a relationship or a friendship.Continue reading “Adventures in Dating in Online Dating 2016A Two Eggs over Lube”

Gay Slurs in San Francisco? Texas Governor Rick Perry, Trips Over Tongue


Texas Gov. Rick Perry has come under fire after comparing homosexuality to alcoholism. The 2016 presidential hopeful was addressing the Commonwealth Club of California when an audience member asked his view on the Texas Republican Party’s recent endorsement  of “reparative therapy,” the largely discredited process by which gay and lesbian individuals can supposedly be “cured”Continue reading “Gay Slurs in San Francisco? Texas Governor Rick Perry, Trips Over Tongue”

The Late Night Lesbian


By:CityFella Indigestion, PBS, email and the long road to lesbianism  After several decades of marriage, children,grandchildren and great grandchildren a dear friend discovers she is gay.  Unable to sleep, she writes me a lengthy email about her life.   I have her permission to tell her story as long as I do not reveal her identityContinue reading “The Late Night Lesbian”

Japans Gay Community wants better living conditions


As the number of countries legalizing gay marriage has risen, the gay and lesbian community in Japan has been encouraged as well to engage more and more in activities that will improve their living conditions. Japan does not have an anti-gay law or legal protections for homosexuals. Some in the gay community are actively seekingContinue reading “Japans Gay Community wants better living conditions”

Gay Marriage Debate in France


Otherness homophobic! The outburst of violence that accompanies the current debate on “Marriage for All” leaves many feel it is directed by unconscious passions, or at least, reasons not clearly expressed, although some are well understood by some protesters share sides. War slogans War slogans seems emblematic of the balance of power is emerging asContinue reading “Gay Marriage Debate in France”

Extremist Christian says gays have stolen ‘all the nice looking black men’


E.W. Jackson believes homosexuality ‘poisons culture, destroys families, and destroys societies’ Extremist Christian and Bishop Earl Walker Jackson may believe gays are ‘sick’, but he has admitted he thinks they have stolen ‘all the nice looking black men.’ He made these comments while in an interview with Peter LaBarbera of Americans For Truth About Homosexuality, RightContinue reading “Extremist Christian says gays have stolen ‘all the nice looking black men’”

DMV Agent “Homosexual acts, he informed her, were “an abomination that leads to hell.”


DMV employee Thomas Demartini rejects homosexuality.  Last year he reportedly refuse to process a transgender womans name change.   His refusal to process the application is against State law. In a city like Alturus where there are few gay citizens one might understand (not condone) his ignorance, but this Department of Motor Vehicles office is in San Francisco. AContinue reading “DMV Agent “Homosexual acts, he informed her, were “an abomination that leads to hell.””