If you send this woman an unsolicited d*** pic, she’ll forward the pic to your mother


  What is it with some men?   Most of us are really insecure about the size of our joy stick. American men are more insecure than other cultures.  In many countries, men of many ages,sizes wear bikini swimwear.    In American, our swimwear is very modest. With the gay community being the exception.  Continue reading “If you send this woman an unsolicited d*** pic, she’ll forward the pic to your mother”

My White Brother in Law*


Oh to be a fly on THAT wall.  The  black (man) fiancee  is coming to dinner  and it’s not Sidney Poitier.  I’m sure there where quite a few questions from the Lodi family. Black People in Lodi? Marrying someone out of my race, wasn’t a total shock from my side of the family, my life wasContinue reading “My White Brother in Law*”

I Wasted 2 Years on a Man I Never Met


The author, Laurie Sandell, in New York City I remember the first e-mail I received from Jamie; it wasn’t exactly poetic. “Hello, you sound interesting,” he wrote. Looking back, it’s hard to believe what that simple line would lead to. He’d sent his note via Match.com. At the time, I was nearing 30 and working asContinue reading “I Wasted 2 Years on a Man I Never Met”

That Mythical Magical #9


When you are super young you cant wait to grow older.    How old are you?  I’m am 8 and a half. The rush to 18 means independence.  21 means you can have a Budweiser with the boys. Then time passes at the speed of light and one day your 29.     All those thingsContinue reading “That Mythical Magical #9”

Is Lying in Online Dating Profiles Okay?


A study has found that people are okay with, and even expect, a certain amount of lying in online dating profiles. But what happens when the lies are bigger than a few inches or a few pounds? People you meet in a bar can lie about all sorts of things. Really, they can lie aboutContinue reading “Is Lying in Online Dating Profiles Okay?”