Trapped: Fast Love and Good Intentions


It was real love,true love, you didn’t know each other long, but it made sense to move in together. After a few weeks, some realities being to settle in. Undiscussed realities begin to surface. Your love spent their very last dime to be with you. While you’ve talked of colors, dreams and positions. No oneContinue reading “Trapped: Fast Love and Good Intentions”

Throwback Thursday: Dating, who picks up the check?


The debate continues to rage on … Who picks up the check….. Is it the man? Is it the person who originates the date? Does it look bad for a woman to pick the check? Is it less romantic to split the bill? Where do you stand? Click on the Link Below to see fullContinue reading “Throwback Thursday: Dating, who picks up the check?”

Hotel Confidential: The app is slow


3:09A-He’s tall thin, 6.4 or 6.5 wearing shorts and flip flops.   The doors are locked.  “Hi can I help you, the front desk agents asked?  I’m here to see someone, said flip flops.  What is the guest name?  I don’t know, says flip flops.  I’m not sure I can help you if your don’t knowContinue reading “Hotel Confidential: The app is slow”

Adventures in Online Dating 2019A “I wont show anyone”


Dating has always been challenging with one exception, Adam and Eve.    Adam spotted Eve in the Malt shop, she was easy to find. Eve looked at Adam, the first or only boy she has ever seen and said Hi, the rest was biblical. For the rest of us , its what do I do?Continue reading “Adventures in Online Dating 2019A “I wont show anyone””

Before I Do: Why History Matters


His or Her Past, may have a major impact on your future as a couple Sex and the Heart has ruined many relationships because they often distract from reality.     The heart wants one thing and one thing only, love.   The heart is hopeful, it tells the brain to overlook what it sees because loveContinue reading “Before I Do: Why History Matters”

Online Dating: She spent two years online with a man she never met


This is a repost of an 2012 article :I Wasted 2 Years on a Man I Never Met By Laurie Sandell, in New York City   .I remember the first e-mail I received from Jamie; it wasn’t exactly poetic. “Hello, you sound interesting,” he wrote. Looking back, it’s hard to believe what that simple line would leadContinue reading “Online Dating: She spent two years online with a man she never met”

A Near Perfect First Date?


  After talking online for weeks, they agreed to meet for dinner.  He is impressed with what he sees.  From the beginning, the couple enjoyed their conversations, first online then on the phone.  She received major bonus points for truth in advertising as she looked like her online pictures. At dinner the conversation flowed fromContinue reading “A Near Perfect First Date?”

dating: THE CHECK


There was a time when the lines were clearly drawn, roles defined.   When it came to dating, it was the man who paid.  It was the man who decided where the couple was going to dine.  This was pre Phil Donahue, and Murphy Brown. After Donahue, there were some feminists who believed the manContinue reading “dating: THE CHECK”

Dates so bad they’re amazing


Emma Freedman says we can all learn from these terrible dates. Picture: Toby Zerna   By Emma Freedman/news.com au “I JUST don’t know what is wrong with guys” one of my besties recently announced. “Like seriously, can you help me figure out what the hell is going on. Where are the normal ones?” she pleaded.Continue reading “Dates so bad they’re amazing”

New World Friends


If your over forty, how many friends have you made in the last ten, fifteen years?  How many through church,work, schools?  How many through bars, and social gatherings? How many via the internet? In the last fifteen years, the majority of the people I’ve met has been via the net.   Chat rooms, blogs, and otherContinue reading “New World Friends”