Wayback Machine (2013) When Ok Cupid Introduces you to people you know


(2013) If you’ve been in a long term relationship of ten years or more, you have discovered the world has changed.  No more meetings at the malt shop after the sox hop and meeting the love of your life sitting in the booth to your left. Wait, that’s not my life, I just finished watchingContinue reading “Wayback Machine (2013) When Ok Cupid Introduces you to people you know”

Germany: Advice for sex and dating during the coronavirus crisis?


How do you get close to a potential romantic partner during the pandemic? Photo: DPA By Rachal Loxton/The Local Some countries have issued frank sex advice for single people, while others have kept it vague. What’s the official advice in Germany when it comes to dating in the time of corona? Since the height ofContinue reading “Germany: Advice for sex and dating during the coronavirus crisis?”

The Perfect Man Who Wasn’t


For years he used fake identities to charm women out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. Then his victims banded together to take him down. Photos from WG600; Ariel Zambelich; KARE-TV Minneapolis; Fort Worth Police Department; Ramsey County Sheriff’s Office; Sacramento County Sheriff’s Office.   BY:Rachel Monroe/The Atlantic By the spring of 2016, Missi BrandtContinue reading “The Perfect Man Who Wasn’t”

Trapped: Fast Love and Good Intentions


It was real love,true love, you didn’t know each other long, but it made sense to move in together. After a few weeks, some realities being to settle in. Undiscussed realities begin to surface. Your love spent their very last dime to be with you. While you’ve talked of colors, dreams and positions. No oneContinue reading “Trapped: Fast Love and Good Intentions”

Throwback Thursday: Dating, who picks up the check?


The debate continues to rage on … Who picks up the check….. Is it the man? Is it the person who originates the date? Does it look bad for a woman to pick the check? Is it less romantic to split the bill? Where do you stand? Click on the Link Below to see fullContinue reading “Throwback Thursday: Dating, who picks up the check?”

Hotel Confidential: The app is slow


3:09A-He’s tall thin, 6.4 or 6.5 wearing shorts and flip flops.   The doors are locked.  “Hi can I help you, the front desk agents asked?  I’m here to see someone, said flip flops.  What is the guest name?  I don’t know, says flip flops.  I’m not sure I can help you if your don’t knowContinue reading “Hotel Confidential: The app is slow”

Adventures in Online Dating 2019A “I wont show anyone”


Dating has always been challenging with one exception, Adam and Eve.    Adam spotted Eve in the Malt shop, she was easy to find. Eve looked at Adam, the first or only boy she has ever seen and said Hi, the rest was biblical. For the rest of us , its what do I do?Continue reading “Adventures in Online Dating 2019A “I wont show anyone””

Before I Do: Why History Matters


His or Her Past, may have a major impact on your future as a couple Sex and the Heart has ruined many relationships because they often distract from reality.     The heart wants one thing and one thing only, love.   The heart is hopeful, it tells the brain to overlook what it sees because loveContinue reading “Before I Do: Why History Matters”

Online Dating: She spent two years online with a man she never met


This is a repost of an 2012 article :I Wasted 2 Years on a Man I Never Met By Laurie Sandell, in New York City   .I remember the first e-mail I received from Jamie; it wasn’t exactly poetic. “Hello, you sound interesting,” he wrote. Looking back, it’s hard to believe what that simple line would leadContinue reading “Online Dating: She spent two years online with a man she never met”

A Near Perfect First Date?


  After talking online for weeks, they agreed to meet for dinner.  He is impressed with what he sees.  From the beginning, the couple enjoyed their conversations, first online then on the phone.  She received major bonus points for truth in advertising as she looked like her online pictures. At dinner the conversation flowed fromContinue reading “A Near Perfect First Date?”