Ask the Rodfather: He is a smoker and I cant stand smoke, help!


Rodfather: My father was a heavy smoker and he died when I was nine years old, he was only 32. No one smokes in my immediate family, none of my friends smoke and kissing somebody who smokes is like licking an ash tray. I met the love of my life online two years ago. InContinue reading “Ask the Rodfather: He is a smoker and I cant stand smoke, help!”

I’m BFFs With My Metamour: My Husband Has a Girlfriend, and Now We’re Friends


By: Erin K Barnes/Men’s Health My husband has a girlfriend…and I love her. That’s right: the love of my life is dating another woman, and she’s awesome. The topic of my metamour—that’s my partner’s partner, in polyamorous terms—is controversial. It doesn’t matter that it was my idea to open our marriage. It doesn’t matter howContinue reading “I’m BFFs With My Metamour: My Husband Has a Girlfriend, and Now We’re Friends”

The Biggest Wastes Of Time We Regret When We Get Older


There are things we all do, or don’t do, that lead us to waste far more time than we realize in the moment. BY: Kristen Wong We spend a lot of energy looking for shortcuts to save time, and sure, those shortcuts add up. But when I look back, my biggest time regrets aren’t spendingContinue reading “The Biggest Wastes Of Time We Regret When We Get Older”

TV’s Mythical Lesbian Bar


FREEFORM Gay women looking for a cool night out will find better prospects on their screens than their streets. By: Melissa Kravitz Hoeffner/Marie Claire Kat and her chic friends sip cocktails at a packed lesbian hotspot in Manhattan on The Bold Type. In Almost Family’s version of Brooklyn, Tiffany lamps adorn a retro sports bar full of athleticContinue reading “TV’s Mythical Lesbian Bar”

Why Forgiving Yourself For Past Mistakes Is The Key To Manifesting Love


BY: Orna and Matthew Walters Letting go of the past allows you to create a love that will stand the test of time. Forgiving yourself can be one of the most difficult steps you take on your journey to lasting love, but it can also be one of the most worthwhile endeavors. Self-forgiveness is a journeyContinue reading “Why Forgiving Yourself For Past Mistakes Is The Key To Manifesting Love”

Covid-19 gets personal


The weather was nice last weekend in Sacramento.  It was my third week in captivity and I was itching to rent a car and venture beyond my four walls. An expired Driver License has delayed my adventure for a week. The world is closed, without the daily distractions my personal relationships are front and center.Continue reading “Covid-19 gets personal”

The Perfect Man Who Wasn’t


For years he used fake identities to charm women out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. Then his victims banded together to take him down. Photos from WG600; Ariel Zambelich; KARE-TV Minneapolis; Fort Worth Police Department; Ramsey County Sheriff’s Office; Sacramento County Sheriff’s Office.   BY:Rachel Monroe/The Atlantic By the spring of 2016, Missi BrandtContinue reading “The Perfect Man Who Wasn’t”

Why People With These 3 Personality Traits Are The Hardest To Love


. By Dr. Seth Meyers Most people encounter a difficult person and call them “crazy” or “awful,” but there are actually clinical terms that therapists use to describe them. If a person demonstrates a pattern of difficult, frustrating behavior over time, there is a good chance that the individual in question has what therapists callContinue reading “Why People With These 3 Personality Traits Are The Hardest To Love”

The problem with happy peppy glass half full people


  Defeat and failure are two words you won’t find in the vocabulary of a Happy peppy glass full person. They will find another rainbow. Light in the darkest of times. Make a joke during sad times. ” I will miss her, but you have to admit she’s dressed better dead than anytime she wasContinue reading “The problem with happy peppy glass half full people”